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		By: wow8kids		</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Sep 2023 10:02:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You know we have had our own journey with some similar issues/experiences. I think I’ve landed (but life isn’t quite as simplistic as just landing and parking, is it?), that while it is confounding to me that God sent His son for us, and Jesus chose His bride and it’s made up of wildly broken people, for the most part -  those people (including me) are just muddling through all of this complicated life. I’ve changed. They’ve changed. Sometimes we don’t agree anymore, and sometimes we still find common ground. But what I’ve chosen to hang onto is that while people are muddling and changing (sometimes in their own quiet way), they make mistakes - sometimes hurtful, intentional and unintentional, mistakes. But God hasn’t changed. He still loves me. He still loves my children more than I ever could. He still has the best for all of us. He still gave us Jesus. And somehow, when the world doesn’t make sense and I feel betrayed by the messages of the Bride, I still know that God is constant and unchanging. He still gives me grace abundantly, so I can give it abundantly. And that brings me peace in my soul and in my relationships. I can’t let go of that. I feel my very life depends on it. And it gives me a peace I don’t understand, but embrace anyway, because I must for my own survival.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know we have had our own journey with some similar issues/experiences. I think I’ve landed (but life isn’t quite as simplistic as just landing and parking, is it?), that while it is confounding to me that God sent His son for us, and Jesus chose His bride and it’s made up of wildly broken people, for the most part &#8211;  those people (including me) are just muddling through all of this complicated life. I’ve changed. They’ve changed. Sometimes we don’t agree anymore, and sometimes we still find common ground. But what I’ve chosen to hang onto is that while people are muddling and changing (sometimes in their own quiet way), they make mistakes &#8211; sometimes hurtful, intentional and unintentional, mistakes. But God hasn’t changed. He still loves me. He still loves my children more than I ever could. He still has the best for all of us. He still gave us Jesus. And somehow, when the world doesn’t make sense and I feel betrayed by the messages of the Bride, I still know that God is constant and unchanging. He still gives me grace abundantly, so I can give it abundantly. And that brings me peace in my soul and in my relationships. I can’t let go of that. I feel my very life depends on it. And it gives me a peace I don’t understand, but embrace anyway, because I must for my own survival.</p>
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		By: Dianne Sublette		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Sep 2023 15:56:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[My dearest friend, I love You!!! Your words are so truthful! You did it, you wrote it...Dear Church! It is exactly like we have talked about! And You were just able to write it perfectly with your words of wisdom! Love you!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My dearest friend, I love You!!! Your words are so truthful! You did it, you wrote it&#8230;Dear Church! It is exactly like we have talked about! And You were just able to write it perfectly with your words of wisdom! Love you!</p>
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		By: Ethna		</title>
		<link>https://www.respectfullycurious.com/dear-church/#comment-92</link>

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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Sep 2023 14:07:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Bringing the true voice of wisdom, compassion and love. Much like Jesus, not religion. 💞]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bringing the true voice of wisdom, compassion and love. Much like Jesus, not religion. 💞</p>
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		By: Mandy		</title>
		<link>https://www.respectfullycurious.com/dear-church/#comment-91</link>

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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Sep 2023 04:51:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You are courageous and loving. What a beautiful combination. You can continue to lead by example, even when you don&#039;t see thise following.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are courageous and loving. What a beautiful combination. You can continue to lead by example, even when you don&#8217;t see thise following.</p>
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		By: Dick staub		</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Sep 2023 01:06:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.respectfullycurious.com/dear-church/#comment-88&quot;&gt;Kathy Staub&lt;/a&gt;.

Ditto to what Kathy said!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.respectfullycurious.com/dear-church/#comment-88">Kathy Staub</a>.</p>
<p>Ditto to what Kathy said!</p>
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		By: Soapizia		</title>
		<link>https://www.respectfullycurious.com/dear-church/#comment-89</link>

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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Sep 2023 00:58:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.respectfullycurious.com/dear-church/#comment-88&quot;&gt;Kathy Staub&lt;/a&gt;.

I love you, Kathy 💜]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.respectfullycurious.com/dear-church/#comment-88">Kathy Staub</a>.</p>
<p>I love you, Kathy 💜</p>
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		By: Kathy Staub		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Sep 2023 21:22:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I love, respect and count you as a family I admire and want to be in close relationship with. Thank you for your writing. You are able to voice many of my scrambled thoughts.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love, respect and count you as a family I admire and want to be in close relationship with. Thank you for your writing. You are able to voice many of my scrambled thoughts.</p>
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